That doesn’t mean they aren’t difficult it just means that the steps needed to get to what most consider a beautiful relationship are fairly straight forward. The fucked up part is that niggas make shit WAY more complicated than it needs to be. Even worse is that these fuckers wander around expecting extra credit for the bare minimum. People will look at a relationship and say things like “OMG! He treats you so well!” or “He loves you so much!” but thats what your spouse is supposed to do you fucking butthole.
They are supposed to give your unconditional love and support. They are supposed to be your biggest motivator. They are supposed to grow with you. They are supposed to treat you right. It’s your job as a spouse to do these things period. You are not doing anything special by doing what your supposed to and that doesn’t make you great either. At that point it just means that you have common sense and can follow directions. I mean, these things were always in the job description of “Lover” so it really goes with out saying. Treat Him/Her right and you’ll go the distance. Love them right and they’ll stay forever.